Hey yall! It’s officially fall here in the Northern Hemisphere! The days are getting shorter, the air is getting colder, and Christmas decorations are now in stock at most retail outlets. For the US, Thanksgiving is fast approaching, and it’s caused me to think back on a few things that I did or didn’t do as a child. I’d include my husband in this post, but as yall probably know just as well as I do that he’s not one for really paying attention to things, so… This will simply be a post about my traditions.
1. Mommy & Me
My dad is a huge hunter, and opening day usually falls about two weeks before Thanksgiving, so my mom and I would often have Thanksgiving alone. It wasn’t that we weren’t invited places, we just kind of enjoyed having the time to ourselves & not having to travel (our family was about 3-4 hours away). Obviously, just by virtue of me being a stay-at-home mom, there is no way a 2-person Thanksgiving with my mom could anymore.
2. Bird Was the Word
With only two people, there was no way we could come close to eating a full turkey, and getting turkey meat from the local deli was usually super expensive. The first year my mom and I had our special “just us” Thanksgiving, my mom happened to stumble across a couple of teeny tiny birds in the back corner of the local grocery store freezer. It was the first time I’d ever heard of a cornish hen. Honestly, I’d recommend them for any small family that wants semi-normal Thanksgiving meal. I haven’t had a cornish hen in ages, but I recently saw some at Kroger, & I’m thinking about picking them up for our Thanksgiving meal here at home.
3. Hap-pie Birthday!
My mom’s birthday is usually relatively close to Thanksgiving, so she almost always gets some sort of birthday pie during the pre-Thanksgiving sales (usually some sort of BOGO deal). Her favorite pies are Dutch Apple and Razzleberry, both from Marie Calendar, so to me, both of those taste like this time of year. 🙂 This is something we still generally do, but it’s no longer limited just to my mom’s birthday, mainly because if she wants to celebrate, we have to arrange some sort of get-together.
4. Expect the Unexpected
The good thing about having a small Thanksgiving is the fact that it can be easily changed. This may not seem like a tradition, but it was always in the back of our mind in the days leading up to Thanksgiving, and it would be easy to move our meal should something else come up, like my Dad requesting our presence up north, or some sort of activity taking place on Thanksgiving that required the whole day (like a training day for my mom, or, once I was old enough, my work schedule). Towards the end of my childhood, this became more and more common, and we actually started moving our Thanksgiving to Wednesday specifically for this reason. Now, my family’s Thanksgivings are often on Black Friday (if they don’t go up north), which is nice because my family lives out and away from most of the stores.
Anyway, I know there are only four traditions, but I wasn’t trying to share everything, otherwise this post would take forever. What sort of family traditions did you have growing up? Do you or your family still participate in any of them? If so, how have they changed over the years? Let me know down below!
As always, thank you for stopping by, and have a good one! 🙂